Bank Account of Memories

Bank Account of Memories


The 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud mother-in-law of my best friend, who is

fully dressed each morning by eight o'clock, with her hair fashionably coiffed and

makeup perfectly applied, even though she is legally blind, moved to a nursing home

today. Her husband of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary.

Maurine Jones is the most lovely, gracious, dignified woman that I have ever had the

pleasure of meeting. While I have never aspired to attain her depth of wisdom, I do

pray that I will learn from her vast experience.

After many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home, she smiled

sweetly when told her room was ready. As she maneuvered her walker to the elevator,

I provided a visual description of her tiny room, including the eyelet sheets that had

been hung on her window. "I love it," she stated with the enthusiasm of an eight-yearold

having just been presented with a new puppy.

"Mrs. Jones, you haven't seen the room ... just wait."

That doesn't have anything to do with it," she replied. "Happiness is something you

decide on ahead of time. Whether I like my room or not doesn't depend on how the

furniture is arranged ... it's how I arrange my mind. I already decided to love it...

"It's a decision I make every morning when I wake up. I have a choice; I can spend the

day in bed recounting the difficulty I have with the parts of my body that no longer work,

or get out of bed and be thankful for the ones that do. Each day is a gift, and as long as

my eyes open I'll focus on the new day and all the happy memories I've stored away ...

just for this time in my life.

Old age is like a bank account ... you withdraw from it what you've put in ...So, my

advice to you would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank account of memories."